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The Israel-Iran Proxy Conflict: How to Read the Situation Beyond the Negotiating Table?

Middle East ✍️ أحمد المنصوري 🕒 2026-03-25 16:29 🔥 Views: 2
A scene from the military escalation between Israel and Iran

The clock reads 4 a.m. In Tel Aviv, as in Tehran, defining moments aren't measured in hours but in the seconds that separate the decision for war from the decision for peace. Here, in this corner of the world, we're used to reading the situation with an eye that doesn't miss the small details behind the big headlines. What's happening today between Israel and Iran isn't just an exchange of blows; it's the culmination of a proxy conflict spanning decades, and now the mask has slipped, and the confrontation has become direct in a way we've never witnessed before.

Just days ago, it seemed everyone was bracing for the worst-case scenario. Tehran's messages reached intermediaries with five clear conditions for a ceasefire—not just passing demands, but red lines. Anyone following closely understands that this moment is reminiscent of a chapter from “A Call at 4 Am: Thirteen Prime Ministers and the Crucial Decisions That Shaped Israeli Politics”, where political calculations intertwine with strategic overconfidence. Decision-makers there, as in Tehran, are well aware that war isn't just a military battle; it's a chess game whose board stretches from the Gulf to the Mediterranean.

In closed corridors, the name Elliott Kauffman is circulating a lot these days. Not because he holds magic answers, but because his expertise in Intelligence: From Secrets to Policy reminds us of one simple truth: intelligence alone doesn't shape decisions, but its absence breeds disasters. What's unfolding now on Israel's northern border and deep inside Iran is a real test of that principle. Tehran wants the economic stranglehold on it lifted, and it wants guarantees against the expansion of American military influence in its immediate vicinity. Israel, on the other hand, finds itself facing a tough equation: how to deter an adversary when it knows full well that today's strike will be met with a double blow tomorrow?

This conflict has dimensions that can't be read just through the boom of explosions, but also through books that describe the solitude of decision-making. “Israel Alone”, for example, discussed the idea that the Jewish state, in moments of decision, finds itself facing the world alone. But today's reality shows that this solitude is relative. The entire world is now watching, and the question on the unofficial negotiating table is: Are we facing an open regional war, or are both sides looking for a way out that returns things to how they were just 24 hours ago, but with a new balance of power?

In discussion sessions here in Dubai and Abu Dhabi, we focus on the most crucial point: the Israel-Iran proxy conflict is no longer a proxy conflict. It has become direct. And this carries both opportunities and risks. For us in the region, the relative calm we're experiencing isn't separate from what's happening; it's the result of carefully reading the situation. The UAE, from the start, has based its strategy on the principle of wise neutrality, but this neutrality doesn't mean absence. Messages are being sent quietly and publicly: we want stability, we want shipping lanes to remain open, and we don't want this conflict to become a cover for settling larger regional scores.

If you want to understand where things are headed, pay attention to three specific points:

  • Iran's Demands: The five conditions emerging from Tehran's closed circles aren't just for negotiations; they're a test of the other side's seriousness. The demands include a comprehensive halt to attacks and guarantees that Iranian positions in Syria won't be targeted, which brings us back to the proxy dynamic we thought we had left behind.
  • U.S. Military Movements: Unprecedented deployments of additional American forces in the region have been clear to observers. This isn't a sign of imminent war, but rather a double-edged message of deterrence: aimed at both Iran and Israel. Washington doesn't want the conflict to widen on the eve of a sensitive election.
  • Market Language: Oil prices haven't spiked wildly despite the tensions. This means major investors in the region are betting on the most likely scenario: a limited war of attrition followed by grueling negotiations, not a full-blown confrontation. The market here is smart, and it knows no one wants to burn all their bridges.

In conclusion, from my decade of experience covering this issue, I can say that the current moment holds a great paradox: the greatest danger isn't in the strike that happened, but in miscalculating the next move. Tehran knows that Tel Aviv is under domestic pressure to achieve "clear deterrence," and Tel Aviv knows that Tehran won't accept losing the leverage it has carefully built over two decades. Negotiations, even through intermediaries, are now happening in the war room, not the conference room. The coming days will determine whether we'll read this scene as just another chapter in a long book, or as a pivotal section that redraws the map of the Middle East entirely.